Love Adviser

what is "Love Adviser" ?
when anyone happen something in love
they will come and tell advicer
and ask for suggestion
love adviser will give some comment
and consolation you
the comment and suggestion is for samples
but some is not to use it
Love adviser
also is a person who let you tell all the uncomfortable
in your heart
and what happen on it
sometime when talk to advicer will feel better
cause you already tell out the things inside ur heart
but the love advicer must be trusted
and keep secret

since foundation in college
i already gradually become a advicer
cause i feel that many people like to talk with me when they happen things
not just in relationship
i am glad to be
and until now my memory for secret already reach until 270gb
the secrets inside my memory is going to be more and more
but from there i learn a lot of experiences
form others
although i think some advices i give is nonsence
[mayb people think that]
but really a lot of experiences i get
actually in my relationship also wont be succes
because who have a sucessful realtionship
every couple also have arguement
just depend how you going to solve it

for me in relationship
really can grow up one person
and have many things to learn in this subject
not fool on each others
is dare to show your personality
to your be lover

from my surrounding friends
they really pass a lot of difficult relationship before
and many things that we never think before
they already pass through before
and i hope they grow up from setback
and have the real love
and for me mr. lau is my first love [and the one that i hope]


in my 4 years relationship [currently]
i learn a lot from each others
especially mr. lau
he bring me think maturely
and dare to love
cause we started with a difficult part
from my form 5 [spm year]
and until now...
our both parents also accept and agree
and our both parents are treat us good
their cares and consideration
are much more then we give to them
in my mind the sad and happiness wont disappear easily
it will be my whole life memory
thankyou winnux 仔
[hehe...]
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-love is without secret and dare to show-
-love is with freedom but no secret-
-love is two person things...NO SECRET to your partner...]-
-trust your partner [before you ask]-
-arguement is grow up both love not quarrel to damage the love-
that's is what i learn...


why we need to in realtionship?
beacuse we love
we got feel [usually people said that...]
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An interpersonal relationship is a relatively long-term association between two or more people. This association may be based on emotions like love and liking, regular business interactions, or some other type of social commitment. Interpersonal relationships take place in a great variety of contexts, such as family, friends, marriage, acquaintances, work, clubs, neighborhoods, and churches. They may be regulated by law, custom, or mutual agreement, and are the basis of social groups and society as a whole. Although humans are fundamentally social creatures, interpersonal relationships are not always healthy. Examples of unhealthy relationships include abusive relationships and codependence.
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An intimate relationship is a particularly close interpersonal relationship. It is a relationship in which the participants know or trust one another very well or are confidants of one another, or a relationship in which there is physical or emotional intimacy.
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Physical intimacy is characterized by romantic or passionate love and attachment, or sexual activity.
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after read....can left any msg on my chat box...thanks...
and suggestion whatever you want to express on me...
thanks a lot...

Abandoned my blog few days ago

i am back...
few days never write blog
but many things happen
first...
kea huey go australia already
what i promise to him
i never do...
when he call me...
i T.T
because i feel bad and sorry to him
and i dont know how to expression
and my tears just drop when i talk to him
sea...if i can...i will go visit...
and miss you too...
luckily yesterday i saw u on9
and i get ur new aussie no. d...
faster come back la...
have our trip again...
crazy together...
i miss the moment
1 and half year only can meet you is too long lo...
faster back here...!!!!
second wilson yesterday birthday i never attend
and i feel bad too...
coz we are 1 gang
but i busy my stuffs and i never go with them
so sorry wilson...
third...
Finally get my salary!!!!!
YEAHH!!!
but still need to wait few days lo...
may salary mid month get...
fuck off..!!!!
wait until i cry...
forth things...
today my brother enter national service camp already
to day early morning mywhole family wake up
because of him
my father fetch him go shah alam gether
at early morning 6.30am
and i also not following to there
coz my leave already no more...T.T
and i feel bad also...
coz i promise my bro...
before he enter the camp...
i will present to him...
but i never do...
coz my salary just get...
sorry bro...
i will give a big present to you...
when your birthday on sept...
[remember me]
hiaz...
so many things i feel bad on them...
so sorry lol...
fifth...
joyce's bf going to come back to malaysia already...
she is so happy until cant sleep lo...
haha...sot sot d...
then she said when he is back...
he wil treat us a meal...
yeah~ good lo...i wait...kaka^^

to joyce:
happy to see you and him can be so long
although you all seperate two different place so long
and you all still can maintain the love~
is a hard job...you know...
happy to heard ur lover coming back soon on friday...
hehe^^finally he want to see us already...
kaka!!!!!
hope both of you can have a lovely life at k.l.
hehe...when marry remember tell me...:p

sixth...
currently...
mr. lau will stay my house
coz he already work at cheras...
and is very very far from his house
so he force to stay at my house
and my mama is so happy
dunno wat reason...
and treat him so good...
but many ppl said if stay 2gether long already sure will argue
but currently still havent happen on my side...
so we see further lo...
actually he stay here...
also not much diff...
just i can everyday meet him...
when he back form work already almost 9pm
after he take bath and dinner
already almost 10pm
and he will sleep on 10.30pm
so we just can meet at that few hours lol...
no choice
he need to wake up early morning 6.00am
and need to go work on 6.45am
coz he start work on 8am
and he reach there just 7.20am
so early...dunno for what...
but he tell me
he go there breakfast...
so ok lo...watever lo...
he scare he late to owrk too...hehe^^
ok....
so he must sleep early lo....
for me the different is i can meet him only...
so also happy la...
:p...
but saturday we still retain go back his house
and sunday come back lo...
he said:
我好似黏外家...
i feel like already ur person [vomite..:p]
and i miss my bed a lot... [no choice lo...]
[you want tired to go home or what?]
coz he stay here for 5days half...
and stay at his own house just 1days half...
so little....
what i scare is just...
his parents accept what he did anot only...

SIX things....happen in this few days....
and i feel so sorry on them

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